Archive for May, 2009

Banking for Kids

My daughter is turning 3 in July, and we’ve decided that along with her third birthday will come her first allowance.

We’ve been slowly working up to this point–my friend bought her a magnet chart to graph her “good deeds” and she earns money for helping around the house. So far this has meant pennies and other random change for helping pick up her little brother’s toys, etc. Basically, she earns money for doing “extra” work. She loves it.

This all came about because one night she was taking a bath with her brother and decided to dump his entire bottle of shampoo into the tub to get attention. I told her she’d need to start doing work around the house to make $2.39 to buy him a new bottle of shampoo. If you haven’t seen her in a while, the first thing she’ll ask you is if you have “any princess work” for her to do, and that she needs to earn “$2.” We’ve been collecting the change she’s earned in a jar, and she’ll pay the cashier at the drugstore directly when she’s earned enough to pay for the shampoo. This has proven to be a really good lesson in responsibility for her, and although she’s young, we figured it was a good opportunity to start teaching her about working hard, saving, and using her money to help others in need.

As a result, we’ve decided that her allowance will be $3 per week (one dollar per year of age–it’ll go up each year), and that she’ll need to complete various tasks on her responsbility chart to earn that (i.e., feeding her fish, getting herself dressed in the morning, putting her dirty clothes in the hamper, helping change her sheets, etc.).

Of the $3.00, 20% ($.60 per week or $31.20 per year) will go into a savings account we’ll set up in her name for long term savings (i.e., college, down payment on a house, etc.). I’ll set this up with ING since she’ll earn interest on her savings–and it’s easy to set up an automatic weekly transfer directly from my bank account.

10% ($.30 per week or $15.60 per year) will go toward charitable contributions. Since Amelie is from Ethiopia, we’ve decided her contributions will go towards EOR’s SOS EE Fund, which supports the orphanage where we she lived. I’ll set up an automatic monthly transfer directly from my bank account to EOR’s Toukoul Fund via Network for Good.

50% ($1.50 per week or $78 per year) will go towards short term savings, and will be kept in a piggy bank in her room. This money can be used to purchase larger priced items she may want (i.e., doll house, etc.).

20% ($.60 per week or $31.20 per year) will be used for discretionary spending, and will be kept in her wallet in her purse. This money can be used if she’d like to buy candy, ice cream, etc.

Hopefully this plan will put her on the path to financial responsibility. When I was a kid, my parents gave me a set amount of money to buy school clothes each year (a whopping $100!), and taught me to walk through the entire mall with a notebook and a calculator–I had to write down everything I liked, the store and the price, then review it all over lunch. I wasn’t allowed to buy anything until we walked back through the entire mall a second time. It taught me a great deal about money management, and I’m hoping this plan–which I’ve worked on over the last couple years by reading various financial expert’s plans for raising money smart kids–helps my kids even more. Our country is in a recession, and hopefully our kids can learn from that and do better for themselves–and learn the value of helping the less fortunate at the same time.

What do you do to help your kid’s learn about money?

-Danielle

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Bring Ethiopia to EOR, Inc.

Ethiopian Orphan Relief, Inc. has signed on to sell Ethiopian goods at the Day of the African Child in Portland next month, but we are woefully low on girls clothing. If you are traveling to Ethiopia in the next 3 weeks or so, could you do a little shopping for us? If you aren’t traveling but know someone who will be (a fellow blogger, perhaps?) please send our plea along. We sold a good many of our items at the Lights of Hope Auction and the shelves are a bit bare. EOR is happy to send money with you, or we can reimburse you once you’re home. If you choose to donate items, the donation is fully tax-deductible.clothingplea

Paige

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Join iGive.com and support Ethiopian Orphan Relief, Inc. today

My semi-regular reminder about iGive.

Every time you shop at any of 700+ online stores in the iGive network, a portion of the money you spend benefits Ethiopian Orphan Relief. It’s a free service, and you’ll never pay more when you reach a store through iGive. In fact, smart shoppers will enjoy iGive’s repository of coupons, free shipping deals, and sales. To get started, just create your free iGive account. And when you search the web, do it through iSearchiGive.com where each search means a penny (or more!) for our cause!  Start iGiving at:   www.iGive.com/EOR & www.iSearchiGive.com/EOR.   EOR joined iGive.com in the fall, and with only 13 members we’ve made more than 200.00 just by shopping online, at the same places we’ve always shopped. Please consider joining–your first shopping experience generates an automatic 5.00 deposit for EOR. It’s a great deal for you, and Ethiopian Orphan Relief too.

Paige

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Spring Cleaning, yo.

It’s my favorite time of the year! The time when I get to organize and clean and make our house all sparkly and new-like. I like it so much, I also “Spring Clean” in the fall. Which is slightly annoying, I know.

When purging and organizing, I like to donate as much as possible to those in need–no need to clog the landfills. I also like to donate anything and everything to Africa whenever possible–I’ve seen first hand how much they need this stuff. In that vein, I figured I’d share with you some of the places I’ve found to donate used physical goods in the past, that directly benefit someone somewhere in Africa. Maybe some of you are about to start your spring cleaning, or maybe you are nesting the heck out of your house in anticipation of your new child’s arrival–whatever the case, if you know of somewhere else to donate used goods that benefits Africa, please post it in the comments!

-Books for Africa accepts newer fiction & nonfiction; primary, secondary & college textbooks; reference books; medical, nursing, IT & law books; Bibles; school & office supplies. You ship the books to their warehouse in GA, or drop them off personally at their warehouse in Atlanta or St. Paul. They then send large containers to Africa to stock rural school libraries, orphanage libraries, adult literacy programs and community resource center libraries. I sent all of my college and law school textbooks–it was easier to let them go knowing they were going to such a good home where they could make a real difference in someone’s life. 

-Unite for Sight accepts used eyeglasses in good condition.

-Crutches 4 Africa accepts used crutches, canes, walkers & wheelchairs. Kinda random, but my husband had knee surgery, so we had crutches lying around in our garage!

-Sports Gift accepts and distributes sporting equipment to children living in poverty all over the world, including in Africa.

-Shoe 4 Africa accepts used running shoes with at least 100 miles left on them for a running program in Africa.

-Sole 4 Souls accepts used shoes of all types for distribution in Africa.

-Nike Reuse a Shoe has drop boxes in many of its stores for used running shoes that wouldn’t be appropriate for other forms of donation–the shoes are ground up and turned into sports courts and playground groundcover around the world.

Another way to help is to have a garage sale, with all the cash donated to EOR or your other favorite African charity. We did this in my nesting spree before Amelie came home–supplementing our garage sale with a sale on Ebay for the “name” things (i.e., old cameras, etc.) and a sale on Craig’s List for the bulky stuff (i.e., my kayak, *sniff*).

Happy Cleaning (and Happy Spring!),

Danielle

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Happy Birthday to…ME!

So. I just bought myself a very early birthday gift. My birthday is June 30th. And it’s my 30th. 30 on 30. And I really, really, really wanted a new bike. I haven’t ridden my bike since I was in law school–because mine was stolen. I borrowed a friend’s who’d moved away for awhile, but never bought a new one. Then I had kids and had no real need for a full suspension mountain bike, so it seemed kinda silly to replace. And my (Adorable! Lovely!) husband bought me RAM for my laptop for our Anniversary, so he can’t really be trusted with the hints I’ve been dropping about my need for a bike for the last year.

Get to the point, Danielle. What does this have to do with Ethiopian orphans?

Um, nothing, really. (Edited to say…) Actually, I just realized it DOES having something to do with Ethiopian orphans, read on! It also has to do with Africa and HIV/AIDS because I bought this bike in a perfect storm of an REI dividend about to expire, an REI anniversary sale on bikes, a 20% off member’s coupon, free shipping and assembly at the local store AND a 2% cash donation to EOR because REI participates in IGive (and you should too! Go sign up at www.igive.com and everytime you shop online, EOR will magically be given money on your behalf as well!). For every 2 purchased, the manufacturer (Kona) donates one to HIV/AIDS workers in Africa. The bike was actually designed for them, and only became available in the US because the design was so cool and practical and people following the whole Africa Bike movement demanded it. So I’m the proud owner of a very cool, slightly badass, 3 speed cruiser–complete with basket, rack and bell. And it’s my favorite color.

My son is getting a bike seat and helmet to ride along with me for his 1st birthday on the 13th of May and my daughter is getting her own bike with training wheels and a helmet for her 3rd birthday July 2nd.

Doesn’t everyone envision themselves a biker at 30?

-Danielle

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Honoring Mothers

I just want to apologize to my fellow EOR ladies for being lame and missing my post last week.  Things in my life have been crazy and while this is no excuse for shirking my responsibilities and I have been shirking.

This is the time of year that I begin to think a great deal about my two children’s birth mothers.  I think of them often, but this time of year I think about them even more.  Part of that is because we got Noah’s referral just a mere 3 days before Mother’s Day 2006.  It certainly made the first Mother’s Day bittersweet.

Birthmother’s are special and so often they get a bad wrap or are just forgotten.  I know when we first began the adoption journey, I leaned heavily towards international adoption because I will admit that I would have been very scared to have birthmother involvement.  What if my child loved the birthmother more, etc.  I realize now those fears were petty.  Maybe they seem more petty now because my children will never get to know their birthmothers.  They will never know what their birthmother’s were thinking when they gave them to “us.”

I struggle with ways to honor Noah and Zoë’s birthmothers.  The past two years I have planted annuals.  I think maybe this year I will plant two perrinals that will come back every year and remind each child of the special women half a world away that made it possible for us to be a family.  My hearts breaks for these women and I hope they know just how much we respect and love them and just how amazing their children are.  How healthy and loved and special they are.

Another way to honor mothers, especially those of us with Ethiopian children is to make a donation to EOR in honor of not just us but also our children’s birthmothers who so graciously have entrusted us to honor them, their culture and their children.

Dawn

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